if you're complaining about why you
haven't achieved your goals yet
the first problem is just that you
complain too much
if you're not willing to work for it
don't complain about not having
if you don't know why you haven't
achieved anything great in your life yet
let me tell you why this is why you
don't succeed
number one you think about what it's
going to cost more than what it's worth
is your dream worth the price you must
pay to get it
and my let's say successful people don't
negotiate price
they negotiate worth is your dream worth
the price
you must pay to get it the sacrifice
the long days the early mornings
in the late nights the lonely roads the
effort the failures
the embarrassment is the end result
worth the pain
most people count the cost but are never
willing to pay the price
successful people pay up front and they
are paid back with interest
in the future don't count the cost of
your dreams
understand what it's worth and pay any
price to get it
number two you point the finger outwards
but nevertheless
if you want to see the person
responsible for all your failures in
life
look in the mirror the good news is
you won't have to move to see the person
who is responsible
for all your achievements take
responsibility for everything that shows
up in your life
the wins the losses the blessings the
lessons
own them all financial crisis
destroy your business own it learn from
it
grow from it six months of your savings
wiped out
why didn't you have six years work learn
from it
grow from it and prove from it
partner took everything in a nasty
breakup cuz you had picked a better
partner
own
it's easy to blame everyone and
everything for our failures isn't it
that means we don't have to do anything
to change
blame it gets you off the hook but it
will never get you the life you dream of
only responsibility will do that take
that responsibility
number three your word means nothing
you say you're going to do something do
it if you don't
you will lose respect from two people
first the person you gave your word to
but more importantly yourself every time
you go against your word
you lose integrity and respect for
yourself
be someone who follows through with
their world if you can't get something
done on time
be honest and open about it people
respect honesty
over everything if you have no
intentions
of seeing someone again tell them if
you're struggling at work
tell someone be one of the rare few
who are real enough with themselves and
others
that is what builds respect and powerful
relationships
with others and within yourself
number four you live for other people's
praise
not your own purpose most people do just
about everything in their life
thinking about what other people think
of them
they pick a job that they think other
people
will think is a great job they pick a
partner
that they think other people would think
is a great partner
they do everything based on what they
think other people will think
other people what about you
you cannot be successful if you are
living
your life for other people's approval
this is not someone else's life this is
yours
and you can never live fully and reach
your true potential
if you are afraid pick everything in
life
that you want follow your passions
not your parents but what you think
looks good to your circle
your passion change things that are
purposeful
to you it will make working on it far
easier
it will make quitting impossible
number five you are obsessed with money
but not your purpose the great irony is
most unsuccessful people
think that successful people are
obsessed with money but successful
people
rarely have a stress overload
unsuccessful people do
successful people don't gamble to embed
or play the lottery
unsuccessful people do no successful
person
is obsessed with money they obsess with
adding value
with creating something special with
growing
and putting the limits their focus is
rarely ever on financial reward
but with personal pride and what they're
doing
chase the money alone and you will be
alone chasing it forever
chase your purpose and the money and
fulfillment will chase you
don't get distracted by signing objects
chase meaning and purpose instead
if you think you've been working hard
and haven't made it yet work hard
work smart find another way
there's always a way
you